Thursday, November 5, 2015

Dear Target Mama

I saw you this morning.  I immediately recognized the tired look in your eyes as you pushed a fussy toddler through the house wares at 8:30 this morning.  I know too well that messy bun on top of your head, wrinkled t-shirt that you probably slept in, and the goldfish bag that you probably haven’t paid for yet.  You saw me, too.  For a brief moment we made eye contact.  Me, the mom with her hair and make up done, cute top and Capri pants, no kid in tow.  You may have even thought, “What a treat it must be to go to target alone at 8:30am.”
I was once you.  I was once that tired mama, dragging a toddler to target to run our errands, because the older child was at school, and the toddler was awake so we might as well.  Though it is enjoyable to shop alone, and be able to get myself dressed now that my kids are in school.  I miss it.  I miss the toddler days.  I miss Disney jr, goldfish on the couch, and blowing bubbles in the yard.  My time with my girls is now filled with homework and scheduled activities.  We no longer have the freedoms of story time and spur of the moment zoo trips. 

So Target mama, embrace these days.  Embrace the messy hair, stained t-shirt, and goldfish crumbs.  Because the days may be long, but oh sister, the years are so short. 

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